Are you wondering if you will ever find love in your life?
Last year is gone and another year is just beginning and you are still single. Are you wondering if this will be the year you finally find that special someone? Are you wondering if you will ever find love?
This can be the year you attract and keep your ideal partner! It probably means doing something different than you have been doing. What do you need to change in the coming year in order to find love in 2016?
- Get Out There
You aren’t going to find that special someone if you keep doing the same things you have been doing. It is time to try something new. It is time to expand your horizons and meet more new people. Try something new to get out of your comfort zone. Join a new group, sign up for online dating; add something to your routine that will allow you to meet more singles.
- Let Go of the Past
Vow to put the past behind you today. I know you haven’t’ been successful yet in finding the right one but all your past experiences have led you to where you are today. Don’t dwell on past failures but see them as learning experiences and opportunities for growth. What do you need to let go of in order to move forward? If you are struggling in this area, this year is the time to get some help. A relationship coach can help you put the past in the past and learn what you need in order to move forward.
- Be Honest
Be honest about what you really want from a relationship. Come up with a list of your top “must haves” in a relationship. If you have an extensive list, it is time to narrow that list down to no more than 10 essential qualities you are looking for in a relationship. Remember to stick to relationship essentials. The more details you add to that list, the harder it is to find that person. You might just miss an ideal partner.
- Give people a chance
Don’t be too quick to judge. This allows you to meet potential partners you might have overlooked before. Many couples say they are with someone they never thought they would end up with. Yet this person turned out to be the perfect partner. Get to know the person inside before you decide he/she isn’t the right one. Never settle for someone who doesn’t meet your relationship requirements but don’t judge people too soon. It might take a little longer to see the true potential of a person.
- Be the Person You Want to Attract
Make a commitment today to be the kind of person you want to attract. Act as if he/she is already in your life. This is the fastest way to find your ideal partner. Being single is a great opportunity to look in the mirror and see what qualities you love about yourself and what improvements you might want to make. Do you have any beliefs about dating or relationships that are keeping you stuck? Are there areas of your life that need improving? This is the perfect time to work on yourself. Create a life as a single that you are happy with and while you are busy being happy, the right person just might show up to join you.
If you would like some help attracting your ideal partner, contact me about my Successful Singles class. It might be just what you need to make this the year you find that special someone.
Lori Ann Davis, MA, CRS